I've struggled with this one all my life. I always believed that I had to say 'yes' or there would be dire consequences.
Saying 'no' inevitably hurt someone (usually me).
But as I've got older, it's become easier and easier and this year I've managed more than ever before..
Wisdom has taught me that as long as one is prepared to take the consequences for one's actions, whether it's a 'yes' or a 'no', that's really all that matters.
'When in doubt, say no!
(I painted this with my one finger, on a yellow card. Quite effective.)
Found Mr Spider outside my front door this morning Looked at him with awe Made me realise yet again That We are all striving to 'make ends meet' W are all striving to keep our homes together. We are all striving to do whatever we have to do to survive. Before it's too late. Mr Spider you are my wake-up call for today. I thank you.
I painted this picture of Nelson Mandela in 2003. Isn't it glorious?
Yesterday, 29th August 2007, a statue of Nelson Mandela was unveiled in Parliament Square in London. I forgot the date, and wasn't there to see him, so feel cross with myself.
When asked who I admire most in my life, my immediate reply is always 'Nelson Mandela'. I remember the day he was released from prison (11th February 2000). We were all watching it on TV and crying. There is no greater man than this one, his love of mankind and his penchant for forgiveness are great examples to emulate. Hail 'Madiba'.